Wednesday, 27 February 2013

Response:LSP Makhoba


As I read through the blog about relationships then emotions or feelings are awaken. We all at some point lose the ones we love in different ways, but being disable shouldn’t change ones feelings. I believe if you love someone you should love them for who they are not their appearance or image or their abilities and disabilities.

Yes things may have  changed but at that point and time  that’s where one needs some love and support from friends and family the most, were you in need of friends around  and the ones you love, now if they are the ones who turn their backs against you then what? I think being disable or disability as a whole shouldn’t change the way we feel about our partners or friends or the ones we love.

But on the other hand Zukis story is one of those that makes one to realize that you can make it in life through anything and you can be the best in whatever you struggling with at that moment. The fact that she didn't feel sorry for herself is what inspires me the most, she is a true example of paraplegic who know what they want in life and go for it. It should be like that women must stand their ground disable or not.

3 comments:

  1. yes Lut you're right, love shouldn't be based on the physical appearance you should love people for who they are not what they are. True love is unconditional.

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  2. But dont you guys think that you have to be attracted to the person youre with to some degree?...Dont get me wrong I'm not in disagreement with what you are saying.

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  3. Nicci what am saying is, you were attracted to me meanwhile i was Ms perfect and now maybe i got involved in an accident and am no longer the beauty pageant you got attracted to, would you leave me??? to me that means you went in-love with me on the first place you just loved my looks

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